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Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Fuck this Christmas! Why do you two have to spoil my christmas when it's on the eve day! Why can't you two solve your problems yourself! Why must push it onto me! What miss me lahh. I have to float here and back between you two and one of you sure angry one! What you want me to do? I come here u not happy, i go there, she not happy. Then what! Where I go?! How i know what the judge ruled during court. How i know what you two did. But now, because of all these shit, I have to settle the problems by myself. What do you two do? Tell me what to say, tell me where to stay, tell me bad things about the other party. So what! Not like is you two saying. Read this on the internet, so true lah can!"Children invariably pay the price for their parents' inability to uphold the marriage. Often, it is not until custody issues are raised in divorce proceedings that the fact of children as casualties of marital conflict comes into full view. And as if that were not enough, feuding couples often use their children as bargaining chips against each other. Children caught in the crossfire of divorce battles often come away with their view of the world as a safe and reliable environment totally shattered. Divorcing parents, reeling from the personal turmoil of dissolving their marriage, are not always in the best frame of mind to either explain to their children why they are splitting up or even understand their children's needs fully. They may instead project their feelings onto their children. To complicate matters, children may conceal their true feelings in order not to add to the rift between their parents. But, privately, they may feel angry, unhappy, rejected or even embarrassed." By Sophia Ang, For The Straits Times Aug 28, 2006 The Straits Times Why this kinda of thing you two also have to pull me to solve for you guys. I stay here, u say u miss me, want me come back. I stay there, he angry, say why i go stay there. Shit, might as well I don't stay anywhere? Wa, Freaking pissed by you guys can. Adults alrd, still rely on my solve for you two, still can't talk to each other to settle the problem. In the end what i get? I have to lie, i have to reason, i have to talk all those bullshit so that i can minimize what u guys feel. Your dirvorce maybe over, but i tell you, it affects the children all the way. I really hate you guys. Spoil my christmas. Spoil my life. OKAY, maybe not ur fault, u guys just don't get along. But, please lahh, solve it between urself can? Dont drag me and sis with you two down. When parents part ways, their children often feel like a sacred trust has been broken. If I can't trust my parents to always be there for me, they say to themselves, how can I think that anyone else will, even God? But God is ever and always trustworthy. He is perfect, while our parents, no matter how wonderful they may have been, could never be. He promises that He will never leave us nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5), and that is a very powerful promise! I'm so pissed off by you two. Tomorrow's christmas party? Which one will i go? NONE. How to trust you guys anymore? I always wanted a stable family, but it's impossible isn't it? But at least let me live my life to the fullest, not like you guys? Why must you two spoil everything? Can't you see not only you are getting hurt since your children are not with you? Can't you see your child suffering, lying, reasoning just for you guys? Can't you see your child, a 13 year old solving all your problems, when you guys are alrd coming 40? Can't you see your child being caught in the middle of both of you? When you guys are both trying to snatch him away from each other? I'm suffering here, so are you. So why can't you guys just stop telling me where to go. I'll go. I'll go... I'll go somewhere, but not home. |